Good to Know: Gags and Blindfolds by SxySadist

Posted by on Feb 23, 2008 in dommes, philosophy, Read | One Comment

My dear friend and comrade in kink Suzanne SxySadist had a great blog post yesterday about blindfolds and gags. It’s the February 22, 2008 entry here: http://blog.myspace.com/suzanne_sxysadist It’s really great timing in part because the issue of basic safety measures and “SM-101″ type lessons has been forward in my mind of late. It just seems ...

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Work Out

Posted by on Feb 17, 2008 in Read, wishlist | One Comment

While I was in Barcelona, I decided I’d go with MB for his daily gym routine. Our hotel gave us access to a great fitness club and I had this fantasy of doing 30 min. of cardio every day and coming home with maybe a little less “luggage.” Didn’t work. I’d forgotten that I tend ...

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Hoover

Posted by on Feb 16, 2008 in play, scenes | 6 Comments

A long-time scene friend was sitting at my kitchen table a few weeks ago. I fixed some popcorn and tea to munch and sip while we caught up. When he’d say something saucy or outrageous, I’d peg him with a kernel. Popcorn crumbs sprinkled the hardwood floor like snow. He sighed, “I always wondered what ...

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I Love Barcelona — In Pictures

Posted by on Feb 15, 2008 in Travel | One Comment

Got four hours of sleep before my flight and, technically, I’ve been up for ….oh, 19 hours straight now. So I’m a little too looped to actually write anything. But here are some pretty pictures. This is a Time Out Barcelona cover. I tried to MMS it to a Domme friend of mine who loves ...

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Safety in Numbers

Posted by on Feb 11, 2008 in clients, dommes, Read | 15 Comments

As a community, we´re all pretty shaken by the recent tragedy at The Nutcracker Suite/Nutcracker AfterHours. Several of my colleagues have emailed me: in Barcelona, sans laptop, and no NYPosts in sight, I thank them for letting me know. One of the more frustrating aspects of this incident is the obvious misjudgments of the House, ...

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