Fantasy and Asshattery

Posted by on Mar 16, 2008 in MaxFisch, philosophy, Read | 6 Comments

Many of you know I participate — with diminishing pleasure — on the MaxFisch discussion board. In fact, I hadn’t been posting here so much last week because I was busy tending to a very interesting discussion of the role of fantasy in a professional session. There were some rather thoughtful responses to my initial ...

When Sadists Scrabble

Posted by on Mar 15, 2008 in dommes, Read | One Comment

MVX and I played Scrabble today. It wasn’t intentional … but look how many kink-related words are on the board. I need to get out more. (My score by the way? 461)

So about that thing with Spitzer….

Posted by on Mar 13, 2008 in clients, philosophy, Read | 2 Comments

For those of you who are interested in the perspective of a high-end escort, there’s a pretty interesting Q&A in the NYTimes with one of the Freakonomics guys and a woman named “Allie.” I also recommend the links and perspective given on the Sex Workers’ blog “Bound Not Gagged.” There’s also a fairly comprehensive and ...

Totally Off-Topic: Passing Strange

Posted by on Mar 7, 2008 in good stuff, Read | No Comments

My music geek friend charmed me into going to a Broadway show last Wednesday night. It was a musical. I hate Broadway musicals. Vehemently. But I like my friend, so I said okay. Calling “Passing Strange” a Broadway musical is kinda like calling me a “dominatrix.” It is. I am. But neither label really does ...

Inspirations

The delightfully demented Mistress Saskia led me to Occasional Hell’s Infernal Device, an incredible site cataloging a variety of historical torture devices. I’m particularly enraptured by the Iron Gag (aka Mute’s Bridle), Heretic’s Fork, and Chain Whip, to name a few. I may need to talk with MetalBound. Sigh.