Here’s one for ya.
Whilst bemoaning my sore feet and sore throat at SMack! the other night, I was again reminded why I just don’t like going to fetish scene parties. Whole lotta walkin’ around looking for something (or someone) worth seeing. I hardly saw any play myself … then again, seemed like a girl couldn’t swing a whip without hitting all the spectators in the process.
So I’ve been thinking about hosting a private play party at my studio for a while now. Something small, like, 10-14 people. Thing is, I want everyone to PLAY. One of the ways I thought I’d facilitate that was by having everyone wear a little tag that lists their inclinations for the evening. Like, mine might read:
Will Top for: Singletailing, rope suspension, trampling
Will bottom for: rope suspension
And then anyone who wanted to be singletailed or suspended or trampled could come up and ask me to do that and I would. Similarly, if I saw someone with a tag that read, say:
Will bottom for: spanking, CBT, face slapping
And I thought, “Hey! I’d like to spank him!” then I’d be free to say, “Hey, Bob, want a spanking from me?”
You could only ask for what’s on that person’s sticker. (Bob could ask me to singletail him but not spank him, e.g.). All players — Tops and bottoms — would have to agree that all play requests must be honored at least once per player for at least ten minutes, after which either player may say “Mercy” and end the scene. Everyone, in other words, should get to play.
Part II of this fantasy is that I would have one or two service bottoms in attendance. One would be a bondage installation. Catheterized, mummified, with some sort of structural support so that he could comfortably stay in the position for several hours. Perhaps he’d be outfitted with this to make him functional as well. Or install him in the bathroom (ooooh!) with this.
The other service bottom would be a consensual nonconsensual free object. Anyone can do anything s/he wants to him/her at any time. (Okay, okay … Maybe I’d allow a sticker with three hard limits.)
And since this would be a private — i.e. non-client — play party, I would auction off the service bottom positions to non-invitees through my blog and the proceeds would go to my sister’s Operation Field Trip fund. (Speaking of which, there’s an address now to mail your donations directly! Please click the link for details!)
Wow. That’s actually a better fantasy than the one I was originally going to write about …. especially cause this one actually has a shot at coming true!