Training Days: Some Background

Posted by on Jul 29, 2008 in dommes, MaxFisch, origins, philosophy, thanks | 10 Comments

Because I’m loathe to join Sugasm just to heighten my post count and I really do want to give y’all more stuff to read and respond to (I *LOVE* my commenters!!!!), I’ve decided to start reposting some of my more defining contributions to The Hang at Max Fisch for further reflection and discussion (esp. since ...

Leather

I was strolling from the chiropractor’s near the Museum of Natural History, down to Magnolia Bakery’s UWS outpost and stopped by Housing Works just to see what kind of stuff they had. A few weeks ago, I’d browsed the wares at the Chelsea store and marveled at how many leather skirts were on sale there. ...

How I Spent My Week

If you’ve been wondering why you haven’t gotten a reply to your email, well, I’ve been kinda busy. Eighties Baby was back for a Basic Lockdown Overnight. We did a few setups, beginning with a straitjacket/leg sack sling spring suspension (that I forgot to get my camera out for). I stored him for the night ...

Don’t Say I Didn’t Warn You

Posted by on Jul 17, 2008 in clients, philosophy | 4 Comments

In my last post, I talked about how clients are often concerned that I play too heavy/hard for them. That I will give them more pain than they can handle. That I’m too sadistic. That’s not what you need to worry about. What you need to prepare yourself for is that I will definitely get ...

(Un)Necessary Roughness: Too Hard or Too Soft?

Posted by on Jul 14, 2008 in clients, philosophy, play | 5 Comments

(I meant to continue yesterday’s post with some thoughts about my clients and heavy play but I couldn’t quite seem to make the transitions work. Still can’t. So. Uh. Zoom Zoom.) Sometimes I get prospective clients who contact me fretting that, based on my MF Reviews or scene descriptions they’ve read on my blog, that ...