NIN of the Above
Talk about Domme cred. My friend The Headliner invited me to the Nine Inch Nails concert Wednesday night (Aug 27) at the Izod Center (uh, the Meadowlands Arena). Me in my leather tank top, Armani jacket, pencil skirt, and sky high shoes. Early to arrive, we scored a prime spot near the front of the ...
Great Chastity Device Information
My friend Aarkey has put together a pretty great FAQ on chastity devices. If you’re into chastity or curious about it, you really ought to click this link. Those of you wondering where my “Closer”/NIN post went … it needed to cook in the oven a little longer. It’ll be back as soon as I ...
Come Again
He’d been on “at will” chastity for over a week, mostly at his own counsel, though three days before he was due to see me, I emailed him in response and said, “I love it when I can occupy a man’s mind without ever having even met him. Dare I make myself even more present ...
Because I’m the Dominant, That’s Why!
I often find myself challenging a lot of what’s considered “dominant” behavior. I rarely kit up in fetish clothes (ironically, most of that ‘trixy gear is so demanding to wear, I end up feeling like I’m submitting to it). I’ll sit on the floor at his feet while I tell him all the tortureful things ...
Whatcha Want?
It’s not at all unusual for me to ask a client, “So, what are you in the mood for today?”It’s also not unusual for the client to respond, “Uh, I dunno. Whatever you’d like to do, Mistress.” While I appreciate the verbal carte blanche, the thing is … well, if there was something I was ...