Ask MTO

Q: Now that I've read your website and confirmed that the type of scenes you offer fit my primary interests, how should I request an appointment?

A:  Please introduce yourself with an email to MTO (at) TroyOrleans (dot) com that contains the following information:

  • How you found my site and/or heard about me (referring website/Mistress, ad, online search. Please be as specific as possible.)
  • Whether we have played before or if you are interested in setting up a meeting. If we have met, please include the email address you used, where you saw me, and a brief description of our scene(s).
  • Your primary and secondary scene interests
  • Who else you’ve played with in the past that can provide a reference for you (at least two names and email addresses preferred)

If your email does not adequately address ALL of the above in a grammatically sound, spellchecked, and respectful fashion, it is unlikely that I will reply.

Q: I am interested in forced feminization / cross-dressing / strap-on / enemas / FT / ___ worship / role-play / tickling / slave training, how should I request an appointment?

A: Please visit your favorite domina directory and find a Mistress who offers those activities. I do not.

Q: I am new to BDSM and have never played with anyone before, how should I request an appointment?

A: While I'm honored that you would like to begin your BDSM journey with me, I only accept established players with verifiable references. Go out and play! I'll be here when you're ready for me.

Q:  Where are you located? Is it a private studio? It's important that you're discreet.

A:  My personal studio, Salon d'Orleans, is a private, very well equipped space in Midtown Manhattan, a few blocks south of the Empire State Building. It is convenient to the N/R/W/B/D/F/Q/6 subway lines as well as the PATH, Grand Central and Penn Station. There are at least two pay parking lots within two blocks.

Salon d'Orleans is a single use space in a mixed use building. Our time together will be unrushed and uninterrupted. Your confidentiality is of utmost importance; I can provide you with a signed confidentiality agreement on request.

Q: Why don’t you show your face?

A:  Out of respect for my privacy and the privacy of my clients, I choose not to display my face in my print ads or on the Internet in a way that would make me easily identifiable. For this same reason, I do not appear in videos/"Clips4Sale."

Any other questions? You may politely inquire via email to MTO (at) TroyOrleans (dot) com; however, please note that if you have a substantive question that is not addressed here, it may be because there are certain things I prefer to discuss over the phone or in person.