Contact Me

The best way to contact me is by sending an email to:
email

If your intention is to introduce yourself and/or request an appointment, you must include the following information:

  • How you found my site and/or heard about me (referring website/Mistress, ad, online search. Please be as specific as possible.)
  • Whether we have played before or if you are interested in setting up a meeting. If we have met, please include the email address you used, where you saw me, and a brief description of our scene(s).
  • Your primary and secondary scene interests
  • Who else you’ve played with in the past that can provide a reference for you (at least two names and email addresses preferred)

If your introductory request email does not adequately address ALL of the above in a grammatically sound, spellchecked, and respectful fashion, it is unlikely that I will reply.


Follow Me

I participate selectively in various BDSM-specific forums on the Internet.

My Blog -- Right here on TroyOrleans.com! Here's where I write at length about my thoughts related to BDSM, particularly real and fantasy bondage, corporal, and edge play scenes. You should also read my blog for updates about my travel plans, new gear, favorite BDSM links (people, blogs, porn, vendors, sites)

"Read(Blog)" is the easiest place for you to interact with me directly. Many of my posts are written with the intention of starting a conversation with you, the reader. The more responses I get, the more inspired I am to post, so Please Feed the Blogger! Just click on the the "Comment" link at the end of each post if you've got something to say. I get an email every time someone comments, no matter how old the post is, so I'll be sure to see it.  You can post anonymously, but keep in mind, your comments are subject to approval. You don't always have to be nice (I like a healthy, positive debate)... but trollishness is not welcome.

Twitter -- I "tweet" frequently about my dominant life and the things that give me pleasure, especially food, BDSM, ideas, kinky friends, gear, sex, and travel. I also occasionally live tweet my play scenes. Follow me here.

Formspring -- Here you can ask me BDSM-themed questions (anonymously!) and I'll answer all your Formspring questions here on my blog (look for posts marked "Ask MTO"). On the Formspring site, you'll also find my 300+ replies to questions already asked. I wouldn't call it a FAQ but it's certainly another way to get a peek inside my head and heart.

The Hang at MaxFisch -- I was once a prolific poster on the discussion board at MaxFisch but lately I prefer the conversations I have on my blog. You can still read my old posts (and the occasional new comments) if you click on my profile and select "Show All Users Posts" at the bottom of the page.

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♦ Max Fisch Domina Guide ♦ Serious Bondage (link)
♦ Open Adult Directory ♦ Serious Images
♦ Pandemos