Recent Posts
A Little Etiquette
There are more kinky posts brewing, I promise (see my recent Formspring replies for hints on what I’ll be writing about). But in the meantime, please familiarize yourself with the etiquette rules in this very charming little primer. http://shelovesny.com/etiquette/home.html I remember finding this thing *years* ago and being so incredibly delighted by it: I know ...
The Gag Order
Someone asked me a generic question about gags via email. I thought my reply was worth sharing and figured I’d just quote it here, but as I started filling in some blanks, it turned into an actual blog post! Holy Accidental Blogging, Batman! (Y’all should thank him. I am.) So without further ado, a few ...
Found Pleasures
There’ve been some great things, kinky and not, that I’ve been enjoying lately on the Internet. Thought I’d share a few of them with you. I love the physicality expressed in many of these images taken between 1950-1970 for an Asian bondage club. While most of the pictures are of tied up young women, there ...
Layering
This was originally posted on MaxFisch. Since not all of you read the boards there, I figured I’d cross post. Hope you don’t mind. Recently I played with someone whom I knew to be a fairly experienced corporal bottom (he’d even appeared in several videos) but was seeing me specifically for bondage. Since we had ...
An Update of Sorts + Session Specials!!
Someone keeps posting things to my Formspring like, “Are you ever going to write another blog post?” and “Do you have a timeline for when you’re going to finish your site updates?” As much as these inquiries piss me off, they do seem to be effective in at least getting me to blog. So here’s ...
The Fem Sub
One of my play partners is a writerly type and he often emails me little fantasy vignettes. Lately, because of various injuries from his non-studio activities, not to mention a bit of disconnect between what he likes to think about versus what he actually likes to do, his stories have been more aspirational than inspirational. ...