Clients are an interesting bunch. For every man who tells me that he wishes he could take more pain or marks or just fantasizes about giving me the pleasure of not holding back, there’s another who worries that I won’t have fun playing with him because I’m such a “heavy player” and his pain tolerance … Read More
Month: August 2008
Some Serious Bondage!
I’ve referenced the JGLeather’s Bubbler Bondage scene on Serious Bondage a few times on this blog and elsewhere. Tonight, I finally got to recreate it for myself. The big dilemma was whether to use a leather or latex straitjacket. My client has a fetish for both. I, however, have a fetish for bondage, so I … Read More
The Best of Me
He’s from Southern California. A dozen or so Dommes have notched his belt before me. This is our first visit. I tie him to a chair and rest my bare feet in his crotch while we chat. “Tonight, you’ll get the best of me,” I whisper in his ear. I sheath his cock in leather, … Read More
Mostly Dead and Read
Lifted and reprinted with my notations from Roxi Fox’s blog. FWIW I have no idea who or what “The Big Read” is but I’m appalled there’s no Toni Morrison on here. Or DeLillo. Or Walker Percy. Or “The Sheltering Sky.” Or “The Corrections.” Or “Their Eyes Were Watching God.” I thought Jonathan Safran Foer’s “Everything … Read More
What Goes Around Comes Around
One of the things I love about my BDSM practice is how it’s always evolving and changing. Scenes or activities that may have been mainstays at one point may fade out and be replaced by another “favorite thing” which then cycles out for the next activity, which may be new or may be a revisit … Read More