Help Wanted
The thing about letting too much time go between posts is that at first you think you have nothing to say, and then you think there’s too much to say and then you go back and forth between those two until you start wondering why you’re blogging in the first place and thinking about maybe ...
Sweetheart
My long-ago ex-boyfriend knew the rules: As long as he got my birthday right, he’d get a pass on every other (bullshit) holiday. Christmas, anniversaries, vacation-friendly holiday weekends…and most of all, Valentine’s Day. Ironically, of all of those, next to Christmas, which I haven’t participated in since I was 18, my least important holiday has ...
A Little Etiquette
There are more kinky posts brewing, I promise (see my recent Formspring replies for hints on what I’ll be writing about). But in the meantime, please familiarize yourself with the etiquette rules in this very charming little primer. http://shelovesny.com/etiquette/home.html I remember finding this thing *years* ago and being so incredibly delighted by it: I know ...
The Gag Order
Someone asked me a generic question about gags via email. I thought my reply was worth sharing and figured I’d just quote it here, but as I started filling in some blanks, it turned into an actual blog post! Holy Accidental Blogging, Batman! (Y’all should thank him. I am.) So without further ado, a few ...
Found Pleasures
There’ve been some great things, kinky and not, that I’ve been enjoying lately on the Internet. Thought I’d share a few of them with you. I love the physicality expressed in many of these images taken between 1950-1970 for an Asian bondage club. While most of the pictures are of tied up young women, there ...