A few weeks ago, I was moving around my bondage table, strapping down a body, and my eye caught the gleam of one of the posts of my suspension rig. In that perfect mid-morning light, I could see the patina that had begun to burnish onto the metal. I flashed back to 2007 when … Read More
My dear friend and colleague in kink, Mistress Wynter, wrote a really great blog post recently about toeing that line between telling you everything and telling you “everything.” In her post, she candidly acknowledged the difference between what you want to know and what she honestly wants to talk about, between the image we, as prodommes, feel … Read More
A specific and disturbingly painful incident over the weekend is the reason for this post. Before it happened, it didn’t occur to me that this needed to be said at all. Perhaps his disgustingly entitled behavior was an anomaly. I hope so. In case it’s not…. Those of you who play with me or even … Read More
Just wanted to announce and/or remind you, in case you missed it, I have a fresh, new interview with Unspeakable Axe on the Masocast. You can listen to it here. I’ve actually been featured on the Masocast quite a bit in both solo interviews as well as a participant in other conversations. Here, I think, … Read More
I’m guessing most of your clients are married men. How does that inform your personal view on men and relationships? My only judgement when it comes to married men and play/sessioning is that sometimes I don’t think the men give their spouses enough credit as far as what their wives desire or what they might be open to as far as kink. I believe every marriage has room for some kink