Expressing My Id: An Update

August 6, 2012bondage, chastity, clients, good stuff, Offers, Read 5 Comments

Someone pointed out to me that my silence here since my last post suggested that perhaps I’d given up on the idea of slaves or was otherwise disappointed in the responses I received. That’s the furthest thing from the truth. (And, for what it’s worth, I’ve been tweeting plenty!) The response to my post, “An … Read More

What Yes Looks Like: Control

June 22, 2012bondage, corporal, Fetters, Read, scenes, What Yes Looks Like 4 Comments

Lately I’ve been feeling … I dunno, dommier than usual. Most of the time I’m all warm and juicy woo woo and collaborative and maybe even a little service toppy (the genuine confidence that you can do whatever you want means less of a need to prove it all the time). But the last couple of sessions have had a chilled edge, a selfish intensity. This is what I want.

The Gag Order

November 2, 2011bondage, Geargasm, Read 22 Comments

Someone asked me a generic question about gags via email. I thought my reply was worth sharing and figured I’d just quote it here, but as I started filling in some blanks, it turned into an actual blog post! Holy Accidental Blogging, Batman! (Y’all should thank him. I am.) So without further ado, a few … Read More