Many of my masochistically-inclined clients have expressed a desire at some point in our journey together to be able to take more pain or a heavier beating for me. To those clients, I’ve always replied that it’s not the intensity of the beating that makes the experience pleasurable for me, but rather the journey itself. … Read More
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Something Beautiful
I was looking at the photo galleries on a friend’s rope bondage site today and was reminded of what is so beautiful about what we do and why some of us choose to breathe in this world. If you’re really into rope, send me a note and I’ll give you the link. The other day … Read More
This One’s Personal: A Thank You
My little sister, named Teacher of the Year for a Georgia school, asked if I would post the following note on my blog in thanks to those of you who responded to my previous request for books and gift cards to help her stock her classroom library. She teaches elementary school children with special needs. … Read More
What Gets Me Excited
I’m feeling good. I am all jazzed after spending the day with my cyka and looking forward to Monday’s session. Someone recently asked me about the things that get me really excited. Since I shouldn’t tell all my secrets, reveal all my buttons…here’s a peek. * Thinking about abandonment play. * Watching the Pavlovian reaction … Read More
Why I’m Thankful
Since it’s Thanksgiving, I want to make sure that you know how grateful I am to all of you who have touched my life in a positive way this past year. Not a day goes by that I don’t take a moment to appreciate how blessed my life has been and how fortunate I am … Read More