Ask MTO: The Future is Now

June 30, 2012Ask MTO, life-styled, Offers, Read 2 Comments

Where do you see your journey taking you over the next ten years? You’ve been at this a while now, is it a lifelong undertaking, or will you continue to evolve and grow? I’d like to think I’ll continue to evolve and grow whether I stay in domination or not.

What Yes Looks Like: Control

June 22, 2012bondage, corporal, Fetters, Read, scenes, What Yes Looks Like 4 Comments

Lately I’ve been feeling … I dunno, dommier than usual. Most of the time I’m all warm and juicy woo woo and collaborative and maybe even a little service toppy (the genuine confidence that you can do whatever you want means less of a need to prove it all the time). But the last couple of sessions have had a chilled edge, a selfish intensity. This is what I want.

Housekeeping: Privacy

June 19, 2012announcements, clients, dommes, philosophy, Read 9 Comments

A specific and disturbingly painful incident over the weekend is the reason for this post. Before it happened, it didn’t occur to me that this needed to be said at all. Perhaps his disgustingly entitled behavior was an anomaly. I hope so. In case it’s not…. Those of you who play with me or even … Read More

Dive

June 14, 2012Read 3 Comments

One of these days I’m going to get over this crazy idea I have that blog posts need to be Big. Important. Things. and just use this forum as a convenient place to share with you little vignettes or ideas or observations or reports that happen to be slightly longer than 160 Twitterable characters. To … Read More