It’s a Wonderful Life

March 10, 2010philosophy, Read 11 Comments

Sometimes I like to think that every time a play partner says to me, “You know, I thought I needed all that ‘trixy fetishstuff to have a good session, but you’ve proved to me that there’s more to it,” that somewhere an angel dominatrix gets to take off her Pleasers.

Earth. Water. Air.

January 12, 2010birthday, Read, Travel No Comments

I spent the last week of 2009 on a private sailboat touring the San Blas Islands archipelago on the Caribbean coast of Panama. Aside from a couple of times racing sailboats (with the same people) when I was in high school, I’d never really been sailing before — like, sleeping on the  boat, sailing from … Read More