His email — brief, needy, throbbing, and barely coherent — pushed into my inbox with about as much appeal as a catcall from the sidewalk. I should have ignored it, just like I had his previous three, since I don’t want to encourage this undesirable behavior, but I didn’t. My casual invitation was a combination … Read More
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Expressing My Id: An Update
Someone pointed out to me that my silence here since my last post suggested that perhaps I’d given up on the idea of slaves or was otherwise disappointed in the responses I received. That’s the furthest thing from the truth. (And, for what it’s worth, I’ve been tweeting plenty!) The response to my post, “An … Read More
What Yes Looks Like: Control
Lately I’ve been feeling … I dunno, dommier than usual. Most of the time I’m all warm and juicy woo woo and collaborative and maybe even a little service toppy (the genuine confidence that you can do whatever you want means less of a need to prove it all the time). But the last couple of sessions have had a chilled edge, a selfish intensity. This is what I want.
The Gag Order
Someone asked me a generic question about gags via email. I thought my reply was worth sharing and figured I’d just quote it here, but as I started filling in some blanks, it turned into an actual blog post! Holy Accidental Blogging, Batman! (Y’all should thank him. I am.) So without further ado, a few … Read More
Layering
This was originally posted on MaxFisch. Since not all of you read the boards there, I figured I’d cross post. Hope you don’t mind. Recently I played with someone whom I knew to be a fairly experienced corporal bottom (he’d even appeared in several videos) but was seeing me specifically for bondage. Since we had … Read More




