His email — brief, needy, throbbing, and barely coherent — pushed into my inbox with about as much appeal as a catcall from the sidewalk. I should have ignored it, just like I had his previous three, since I don’t want to encourage this undesirable behavior, but I didn’t. My casual invitation was a combination … Read More
clients
What Yes Looks Like: Control
Lately I’ve been feeling … I dunno, dommier than usual. Most of the time I’m all warm and juicy woo woo and collaborative and maybe even a little service toppy (the genuine confidence that you can do whatever you want means less of a need to prove it all the time). But the last couple of sessions have had a chilled edge, a selfish intensity. This is what I want.
Limits
Maybe it’s unfair of me, but I’m always amused when new clients offer up their “hard limits,” usually unsolicited, when requesting an appointment. Often they’ll say things like “no cross dressing” or “no scat,” which brings a “where did THAT come from?!” frown to my face since there’s nothing on my site to indicate that … Read More
Layering
This was originally posted on MaxFisch. Since not all of you read the boards there, I figured I’d cross post. Hope you don’t mind. Recently I played with someone whom I knew to be a fairly experienced corporal bottom (he’d even appeared in several videos) but was seeing me specifically for bondage. Since we had … Read More



