Philber’s comment on my “This is the Life Style” post reminded me of one of my favorite anecdotes of last year: While traveling last summer I met a 50-something Italian who was living in Central America. He’d offered to take me to a beautiful, remote beach — one I’d never find without a local’s help … Read More
life-styled
This is the Life Style, in Two Parts
A young woman in Virginia who’s training to be a dominatrix blind-emailed me the other day asking for my advice on acquiring certain skill sets. She said she wanted to cultivate her “Bitch Goddess persona” and I replied that “personas” aren’t really a part of my play dynamic. “My focus is on bondage, corporal, and … Read More
Housecleaning
I’ve barely had time to read, much less write these last couple of weeks. If you’ve been waiting for a reply to a previously sent email, please resend it with a little nudge. So just what have I been doing? Well, here was my view on Christmas Day. So that was nice. I came back … Read More
What Gets Me Excited
I’m feeling good. I am all jazzed after spending the day with my cyka and looking forward to Monday’s session. Someone recently asked me about the things that get me really excited. Since I shouldn’t tell all my secrets, reveal all my buttons…here’s a peek. * Thinking about abandonment play. * Watching the Pavlovian reaction … Read More