Maybe it’s unfair of me, but I’m always amused when new clients offer up their “hard limits,” usually unsolicited, when requesting an appointment. Often they’ll say things like “no cross dressing” or “no scat,” which brings a “where did THAT come from?!” frown to my face since there’s nothing on my site to indicate that … Read More
In my last post, I talked about how clients are often concerned that I play too heavy/hard for them. That I will give them more pain than they can handle. That I’m too sadistic. That’s not what you need to worry about. What you need to prepare yourself for is that I will definitely get … Read More
Unspeakable Axe, a very classy fellow, wrote a provocative blog recently about why he doesn’t session with professional dominatrices (yet). While some of his points (no intercourse! it’s a budget killer!) are reasonable, I found some of it inconsistent with my experiences and perspective. So consider this my response rap: Why You Should See A … Read More
For those of you who are interested in the perspective of a high-end escort, there’s a pretty interesting Q&A in the NYTimes with one of the Freakonomics guys and a woman named “Allie.” I also recommend the links and perspective given on the Sex Workers’ blog “Bound Not Gagged.” There’s also a fairly comprehensive and … Read More
My dear friend and comrade in kink Suzanne SxySadist had a great blog post yesterday about blindfolds and gags. It’s the February 22, 2008 entry here: http://blog.myspace.com/suzanne_sxysadist It’s really great timing in part because the issue of basic safety measures and “SM-101” type lessons has been forward in my mind of late. It just seems … Read More