A young woman in Virginia who’s training to be a dominatrix blind-emailed me the other day asking for my advice on acquiring certain skill sets. She said she wanted to cultivate her “Bitch Goddess persona” and I replied that “personas” aren’t really a part of my play dynamic. “My focus is on bondage, corporal, and … Read More
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Repeating Myself
Hey, y’all. I’m back. So you know I’ve got a bit of ass on the brain (some might argue it’s because I’ve had my head up my own ass lately… sorry for neglecting you). In the past week or so I’ve had two sessions with a similar theme element. Ass-related, of course. (Mostly cause I … Read More
Sometimes, I Like It Rough
I dragged him by the hair and pushed him to the floor. Hooded him. Cuffed his hands to the base of the A-frame. A spreader bar kept his ankles apart. Rope to make his legs stay put. I raked a Whartenberg wheel all over his body. His left nipple drooled blood. With my single tail, … Read More
S/M Corporal Play
Many of my masochistically-inclined clients have expressed a desire at some point in our journey together to be able to take more pain or a heavier beating for me. To those clients, I’ve always replied that it’s not the intensity of the beating that makes the experience pleasurable for me, but rather the journey itself. … Read More