Unspeakable Axe, a very classy fellow, wrote a provocative blog recently about why he doesn’t session with professional dominatrices (yet). While some of his points (no intercourse! it’s a budget killer!) are reasonable, I found some of it inconsistent with my experiences and perspective. So consider this my response rap: Why You Should See A … Read More
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Shibaricon: The Afterglow
So I’m back from ShibariCon and while I had an amazing time the best part about it was that now I do not have any travel currently planned for the rest of June and July. Huzzah! There are, however, some close runner-ups for “best things about Shibaricon 2008.” First would be I learned Master Z’s … Read More
Good to Know: Gags and Blindfolds by SxySadist
My dear friend and comrade in kink Suzanne SxySadist had a great blog post yesterday about blindfolds and gags. It’s the February 22, 2008 entry here: http://blog.myspace.com/suzanne_sxysadist It’s really great timing in part because the issue of basic safety measures and “SM-101” type lessons has been forward in my mind of late. It just seems … Read More
Safety in Numbers
As a community, we´re all pretty shaken by the recent tragedy at The Nutcracker Suite/Nutcracker AfterHours. Several of my colleagues have emailed me: in Barcelona, sans laptop, and no NYPosts in sight, I thank them for letting me know. One of the more frustrating aspects of this incident is the obvious misjudgments of the House, … Read More
FUNNNNNNNNN!
I talk a lot about energy exchange but one of the many, MANY neat things I’ve taken away from spending time with Mistress Amanda is the the idea of self-generated energy. She’s got this thing where in a middle of a scene, at random moments, she’ll just holler, “FUNNNN!” with this really reverb-y kind of … Read More