One of my clients sent me an email recently intimating that he’d been fantasizing about picking up something for me at Fetters: “something dark, or sharp, or just plain evil,” he said.

What intrigued me about this was just wondering what that present would look like from his point of view. It reminded me about how much I enjoy looking at other Mistresses’ wishlists because they not only help me discover great toys, sites, and resources, but because they can tell me so much about the Mistress.

I also get a lot of inspiration when clients send me links for toys they’re curious about or want to play with (unless it’s some kind of boundary-pushing toy like a Feeldoe or some other kind of genital toy for me…that really rubs me the wrong way (slight pun intended)).

So now I want to know: what’s on your wishlist? What piece of equipment or gear have you seen that’s gotten your mouth watering? (Or cock throbbing. Or simply activated your “covet” switch.) Paste a link. Show me. Explain why … or don’t. I just want to see.

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  • Pretty straight forward item but I guess it is not on my wish list anymore since I bought http://cgi.ebay.com/Router-Universal-Motor-Variable-Speed-Control-for-any_W0QQitemZ250254342774QQihZ015QQcategoryZ20781QQssPageNameZWDVWQQrdZ1QQcmdZViewItem it today on eBay. It is a little gizmo that plugs into the wall outlet and then I plug the Hitachi Magic Wand (or any other devilish device like the power sander I bought recently and fitted a soft neoprene rubber head on it) into it and Voila I have a completely variable speed toy or vibe rather than having to rely on two preset low and hi settings.

    I can position the Hitachi against my partner’s appropriate body part, bind it in place with Vet Wrap, sit back and go from zero to sixty as slowly as possible or as fast as possible and everything and every variation in between, up and down and up and down and back and forth, for as excrutiatingly prolonged a period as I desire.

  • I’ve daydreamed about metal bondage of one shape or another ever since I was very young. Specifically spreader bars and X bars.
    Here’s one example:
    http://www.stockroom.com/X-Bars-P1200.aspx

    I like the idea of being able to use it in multiple positions.
    The same goes for the adjustable stocks http://www.stockroom.com/Adjustable-Stocks-P1197.aspx

    I think it’s because both would leave different parts of the body exposed.

    Yeah, forced exposure.

    The PES Electro chair has been something I’ve drooled over for…wow, more than ten years. Ever since I saw the thing I’ve been curious about electro play.

    http://www.peselectro.com/pescontent/index.php?main_page=product_info&products_id=311

    Ok if you’ll excuse me, I have some daydreaming to do.

  • What a wonderful question, and from you, how ironic?

    Before I started sessioning with you, I was so totally obsessed with fetish; it was all about my Mistress’ shoes, or lipstick or the skintight fit of her costume. And what self-respecting dungeon didn’t boast racks of canes, floggers, ropes, chains and gizmos of every kind. Isn’t that, afterall, what it’s all about?

    And then I had two sessions with you. In the first, you’ll recall, I was wonderfully and securely bound, almost without realizing it, and still clothed (dammit!). In the second, there wasn’t even so much as a whisp of rope in sight. No gadgets, no toys, just you. And I swear I have never known anything quite so raw and so intense.

    You’ve changed my view of toys and fetish objects so completely that my new obsession is belongs to the ‘less is more’ approach – how can you do SO much equipped with nothing but your imagination?

    So although I know this isn’t what you wanted, nor is it in the spirit of your entry, my answer has to be…. you. You’re the dark, sharp, shiny and oh so evil object of my desire.You’re what haunts my thoughts and it is you I really fantasize about playing with.

    P.S. If you insist though, just the thought of how you might use that Fetters Studiogum rubber funnel hood does some really alarming things to my well-ordered theory.

  • @garrett,
    Crazy. I was just talking to someone else (Dov?) about putting vibe toys on dimmer switches. I bought one of those light timers so that I could have someone in bondage with a Venus rigged to start and stop automatically. Maddeningly. Well, one hopes. I haven’t tried it. Yet.

    Why is it that while I love vibrators, the thought of bottoming to something like your setup just makes me mad? 😉

  • @axe
    First of all, I know you know how to embed links. Why you making me copy and paste?
    The muff on the chick in the second pic is hot. Ever since bald pussy became de rigeur I’ve been so fascinated by bush. Wouldn’t want to lick it (pfffpht! phffthp!), but I love to look at it.
    Metal bondage is a major interest/turnon for me these days. Dunno where it came from. But lordy. It’s here. I left a puddle of drool on my desk the first time I saw this in action (scroll down to the bottom, or try the next page).
    I like those pieces you picked out. Been eying the adjustable stocks for my collection for a while now. There’s something about metal bondage that’s a little intimidating for me: it’s so hard, cold, rigid. So unlike me. Maybe it’s the contrast that appeals.

  • @peter
    EVERYONE has a net gun? Holy web encasement, spiderman!
    Abduction’s a really sexy idea. I wish I knew someone who really did them — some sort of Jason Bourne type — so I could learn how to do it right. Too much suspension of disbelief going on when I try to do it now. Sigh.

  • @jeremy
    Oh my. I think now I know how the Meat.Blood.Sex. guy probably felt reading my post. blush

    I ordered a Studiogum hood and the Bubbler to go with it. To see the source of inspiration, navigate through here . It may take me a few months to grow into this particular piece of equipment but once I do … watch out!

  • This item gives so many bondage possibilities.
    http://www.maxcita.com/exosuit/pexosuit.html
    From “simple” mummification to bondage to a pole to suspension to abandonment…
    A head-to-toe piece of clothing, which can, when utied leave almost full mobility, and then, less, and less, and less…
    And knowing Max Cita, escaping is not exactly a likely outcome, especially if it is you handling the buckles

  • Hi Troy 🙂

    I was recently told about a latex sleepsack with long gloves built into it in such a way that the top could reach in and grope/manipulate/touch the bottom. I have been trying to find it ever since because it sounds like it achieves certain elements of my fantasy of having a submissive in a large inescapable version of one of these:

    http://www.med-eq.org/images/customer-images/415972Air-Shields-Vickers-Isolette-Infant-Incubator.jpg

  • Philber,
    I’m a big fan of MaxCITA as you know. His psycho latex vacsac’s been on my wishlist for ages (see the “Covetables” on the left side of my blog page) and I love his sleepsack that I have (as you also well know). I’ve seen the exosuit but haven’t particularly understood its appeal, thinking with all that mobility, how is it not like wearing a jumpsuit? But after reviewing the pictures and descriptions and your comments, it’s starting to make more sense to me.
    One of the things I love about my practice is having the luxury to discover stuff like this, if that makes any sense.
    Excellent choice. As expected.

  • Hi, Tara! 😀
    The link you included didn’t work, but that site is really interesting. Think if I check it regularly I might find me a defibulator one day?

    You might want to check out some of MaxCITA’s stuff at MaxCITA.com or talk with him about a custom order.
    In trying to visualize your set up, I’m assuming it’s a really baggy bag? Otherwise, what is the advantage of having the glove attachment that couldn’t be achieved with a threeway zipper?

  • Troy,

    Thanks for letting me play along. It was inflatable, so not exactly like an incubator. I think not unzipping to get access could achieve a different psychological space for myself and hopefully the bottom, perhaps create more distance in some ways and more intimacy in others. I do like the classic sleepsacks and play with them often, I don’t think this would be better- just different. Sometimes I don’t know exactly why something appeals to me until after I do it. Here is another try at that link:

    P.S. If you are inspired by that video, it can go on the list of reasons to visit S.F. as the chair now lives on the first floor of the Eiger Institute 😉

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