Ask MTO: Love and Marriage

April 24, 2012Ask MTO, clients, philosophy, Read 4 Comments

I’m guessing most of your clients are married men. How does that inform your personal view on men and relationships? My only judgement when it comes to married men and play/sessioning is that sometimes I don’t think the men give their spouses enough credit as far as what their wives desire or what they might be open to as far as kink. I believe every marriage has room for some kink

Limits

February 26, 2012clients, philosophy, play, Read 12 Comments

Maybe it’s unfair of me, but I’m always amused when new clients offer up their “hard limits,” usually unsolicited, when requesting an appointment. Often they’ll say things like “no cross dressing” or “no scat,” which brings a “where did THAT come from?!” frown to my face since there’s nothing on my site to indicate that … Read More

Layering

July 3, 2011bondage, clients, Geargasm, philosophy, Read 3 Comments

This was originally posted on MaxFisch. Since not all of you read the boards there, I figured I’d cross post. Hope you don’t mind. Recently I played with someone whom I knew to be a fairly experienced corporal bottom (he’d even appeared in several videos) but was seeing me specifically for bondage. Since we had … Read More

Honest

April 20, 2011clients, philosophy, Read, What They Say 3 Comments

Just now, I was reading the comments on a previous blog post and smiled when I read the response submitted by the subject of the post, particularly this: “She certainly shocked the shit out of me with her offer. I knew she was serious too. That’s how she is.” Coincidentally, earlier this morning, another play … Read More

AMAZING!!! THANK YOU!

January 15, 2011birthday, clients, Read, thanks, wishlist No Comments

Wow. Just wow. This birthday was probably my best ever. I’ve been utterly humbled and blown away by all the love and enthusiasm and positivity and support sent my way during this celebration. Thank you so much to all of you who directly contributed to making my birthday AMAZING: Cards, flowers, emails, texts, and gifts. … Read More