There’s nothing like a milestone birthday to prompt a taking stock of life: what you’ve done, what you’re doing, what’s ahead. I’ve been exploring the BDSM scene for nearly ten years, most of those years as a professional dominant. It’s been an incredibly fulfilling experience being able to play and connect so positively with so … Read More
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Push
Someone I’d only seen a couple of times before — and one of those times was back in my babydomme days at Luxuria — contacted me about a bondage-centric OE. From his emails, it was obvious he was in a fevered, ravenous state. Ultra restrictive bondage! Abandonment! What’s the longest we can play?!!?!! Aww, puppy. … Read More
Anything
I was standing in the middle of a dungeon/art gallery/something, talking with a friend when a man approached me and asked, “Anything I can do for you?” In a BDSM setting, such inquiries invariably rub me the wrong way. Anything? The word is loaded with expectation. It weighs on me. It imposes. “Anything,” he says. … Read More
A VIP Shoe Experience
Ok. I’m just going to put it out there. I want a shoe slave. I know, I know I have gone on at length about how I don’t do foot/shoe sessions but I’ve never said it’s because I don’t like them. I love shoes. LOVE them. And, honestly, I actually love having my feet and … Read More
What He Said…
Based on the comments to my recent post “Win-Win,” it seemed there was some interest in hearing his side of the story. So I asked him to share it with you. I’ve made some light copyedits for grammar and clarity. You might also want to check out his reply in the comments of the original … Read More