My dear friend and comrade in kink Suzanne SxySadist had a great blog post yesterday about blindfolds and gags. It’s the February 22, 2008 entry here: http://blog.myspace.com/suzanne_sxysadist It’s really great timing in part because the issue of basic safety measures and “SM-101” type lessons has been forward in my mind of late. It just seems … Read More
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Safety in Numbers
As a community, we´re all pretty shaken by the recent tragedy at The Nutcracker Suite/Nutcracker AfterHours. Several of my colleagues have emailed me: in Barcelona, sans laptop, and no NYPosts in sight, I thank them for letting me know. One of the more frustrating aspects of this incident is the obvious misjudgments of the House, … Read More
FUNNNNNNNNN!
I talk a lot about energy exchange but one of the many, MANY neat things I’ve taken away from spending time with Mistress Amanda is the the idea of self-generated energy. She’s got this thing where in a middle of a scene, at random moments, she’ll just holler, “FUNNNN!” with this really reverb-y kind of … Read More
Signature Moves
While Suzanne SxySadist was here, I invited her to give a singletail tutorial to me and Mistress Katja of Seattle/San Francisco. Two of my favorite Dommes, a mess o’ whips, and tea: what better way to spend a Saturday morning?!? Suze taught us a new stroke (one she says she learned from Dov) called “The … Read More
Something Special
My talented friend and colleague Suzanne SxySadist will be visiting Salon d’Orleans next week and is available for sessions as well as double Mistress scenes with me Thursday, Dec 21-Saturday, Dec 23. Her specialties include corporal play, rope bondage, and medical play. Suzanne is an awe-inspiring Domina. Many of the core elements of my practice … Read More