I was trying to write a post about lust and couldn’t get myself in the headspace. Maybe it was because I’d actually written the post already in an Upper West Side cafe, even though I don’t write well in restaurants. But I overcame the melodramatic young girl talking nonstop and eating her hot chocolate with … Read More
I’m trying to make more blog posts. I found this on Mistress Varla’s Tumblr. It’s not too far off. I’d say my friends think I … jet set. Like, I’m always traveling, going out to fancy restaurants, that kind of thing. My family, most of them at least, think I have my own business (and … Read More
Someone keeps posting things to my Formspring like, “Are you ever going to write another blog post?” and “Do you have a timeline for when you’re going to finish your site updates?” As much as these inquiries piss me off, they do seem to be effective in at least getting me to blog. So here’s … Read More
First, some Important News! I’ve taken on an apprentice. She will be training with me over the next few weeks, observing and participating in some sessions under my guidance. We work wonderfully well together. Already she’s proven to have exceptional instincts as a dominant and is exploring bondage, particularly rope, tease and denial, corporal punishment and … Read More
I often find myself challenging a lot of what’s considered “dominant” behavior. I rarely kit up in fetish clothes (ironically, most of that ‘trixy gear is so demanding to wear, I end up feeling like I’m submitting to it). I’ll sit on the floor at his feet while I tell him all the tortureful things … Read More