One of the things I love about my BDSM practice is how it’s always evolving and changing. Scenes or activities that may have been mainstays at one point may fade out and be replaced by another “favorite thing” which then cycles out for the next activity, which may be new or may be a revisit … Read More
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How I Spent My Week
If you’ve been wondering why you haven’t gotten a reply to your email, well, I’ve been kinda busy. Eighties Baby was back for a Basic Lockdown Overnight. We did a few setups, beginning with a straitjacket/leg sack sling spring suspension (that I forgot to get my camera out for). I stored him for the night … Read More
(Un)Necessary Roughness: Too Hard or Too Soft?
(I meant to continue yesterday’s post with some thoughts about my clients and heavy play but I couldn’t quite seem to make the transitions work. Still can’t. So. Uh. Zoom Zoom.) Sometimes I get prospective clients who contact me fretting that, based on my MF Reviews or scene descriptions they’ve read on my blog, that … Read More
Necessary Roughness
Clients often ask me if I switch or bottom. It’s weird to me how much of a stigma that carries in the realm of prodomination. So many men say they seek submission/surrender because they are so alpha/dominant/in control in their non-scene life, they seek a Dominant for balance. Why aren’t ProDominas afforded the same concession? … Read More
Why Haven’t You Gone to a ProDomme? Why You Should.
Unspeakable Axe, a very classy fellow, wrote a provocative blog recently about why he doesn’t session with professional dominatrices (yet). While some of his points (no intercourse! it’s a budget killer!) are reasonable, I found some of it inconsistent with my experiences and perspective. So consider this my response rap: Why You Should See A … Read More