In his personal life, STS is a domestic discipline Top (and he’s a right fit Englishman, to boot) but as my client he bottoms to me for single tail scenes. Often after our sessions, we’ll have a glass of wine while the fires on his back bank down to a warm glow and he’ll tell … Read More
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FUNNNNNNNNN!
I talk a lot about energy exchange but one of the many, MANY neat things I’ve taken away from spending time with Mistress Amanda is the the idea of self-generated energy. She’s got this thing where in a middle of a scene, at random moments, she’ll just holler, “FUNNNN!” with this really reverb-y kind of … Read More
Sticks in Stones
Some of you may remember the mangina pics from a while ago. Well, I decided to do it again. (Ah, see this is why I shouldn’t be discussing play on my blog … just revealing myself for the repetitive Domme I am. *sigh*) Actually, this time was a little different. No manginas. I did a … Read More
This is the Life Style, in Two Parts
A young woman in Virginia who’s training to be a dominatrix blind-emailed me the other day asking for my advice on acquiring certain skill sets. She said she wanted to cultivate her “Bitch Goddess persona” and I replied that “personas” aren’t really a part of my play dynamic. “My focus is on bondage, corporal, and … Read More
Repeating Myself
Hey, y’all. I’m back. So you know I’ve got a bit of ass on the brain (some might argue it’s because I’ve had my head up my own ass lately… sorry for neglecting you). In the past week or so I’ve had two sessions with a similar theme element. Ass-related, of course. (Mostly cause I … Read More