What Yes Looks Like: Control

June 22, 2012bondage, corporal, Fetters, Read, scenes, What Yes Looks Like 4 Comments

Lately I’ve been feeling … I dunno, dommier than usual. Most of the time I’m all warm and juicy woo woo and collaborative and maybe even a little service toppy (the genuine confidence that you can do whatever you want means less of a need to prove it all the time). But the last couple of sessions have had a chilled edge, a selfish intensity. This is what I want.

What I Do

February 23, 2012dommes, Internet Finds, philosophy, Read 6 Comments

I’m trying to make more blog posts. I found this on Mistress Varla’s Tumblr.  It’s not too far off. I’d say my friends think I … jet set. Like, I’m always traveling, going out to fancy restaurants, that kind of thing. My family, most of them at least, think I have my own business (and … Read More

Ephemera

May 24, 2010announcements, bondage, dommes, good stuff, Read, Travel 8 Comments

First, some Important News! I’ve taken on an apprentice. She will be training with me over the next few weeks, observing and participating in some sessions under my guidance. We work wonderfully well together. Already she’s proven to have exceptional instincts as a dominant and is exploring bondage, particularly rope, tease and denial, corporal punishment and … Read More

Future Market: Texas

April 16, 2010corporal, Read No Comments

A Texas city has brought back paddling in schools. The comments section of this article is pretty interesting. This one was singled out for its obvious outstandingness: From CJ4: I grew up in Plano, TX (getcher heroin and suicide here, folks) in the 80s and we used to get paddled in middle school for various infractions. … Read More

It’s a Wonderful Life

March 10, 2010philosophy, Read 11 Comments

Sometimes I like to think that every time a play partner says to me, “You know, I thought I needed all that ‘trixy fetishstuff to have a good session, but you’ve proved to me that there’s more to it,” that somewhere an angel dominatrix gets to take off her Pleasers.