He was waiting for me. Legs sleeved and bound in the leather sack. Hands wrapped in leather. A padded hood tightened and buckled around his head, eyes and ears blacked out, a grommet to breathe through. His torso, inked but otherwise bare. I watched his stomach undulate with breath and pictured myself licking the edges … Read More
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Extreme Constraints
Part of the reason I’ve loved Extreme Restraints over the years is that I’ve been able to find good deals on products that seem to cost much more elsewhere. It’s one thing, though, to get a deal on some lube or other commercial item and quite another when the low prices are the result of … Read More
Because it’s okay to dress like a dominatrix…
…it’s just not okay to actually BE one. Well, actually, it IS okay to be one. Just not to get paid for it. You know, I have no desire to ever marry. Can’t we just pretend I’m collecting my wife credit now? Sigh. See, it’s my compulsive, nitpicky honesty that just undercuts my humor every … Read More
What’s Changed
Since my blog’s been private, I’ve received dozens of invitation requests. Most of them were from y’all but I got a few from the “We’ve never met, but…” crew. Call me a softie but those are the ones that have pained me the most. It’s, like, so much of what this world has been about … Read More
Perhaps You’ve Heard This One Before ….
Philber’s comment on my “This is the Life Style” post reminded me of one of my favorite anecdotes of last year: While traveling last summer I met a 50-something Italian who was living in Central America. He’d offered to take me to a beautiful, remote beach — one I’d never find without a local’s help … Read More