Travel bug

October 30, 2009philosophy, Read, Travel 5 Comments

Someone recently posted on MaxFisch asking why dommes travel for sessions. I replied that I haven’t been traveling as much since setting up Salon d’Orleans, but that there are still plenty of places I’ve been meaning to go. Since then, I’ve been thinking about all those places — Richmond, Va., Virginia Beach, St. Louis, Chicago, … Read More

Prescience and predictions

September 2, 2009MaxFisch, origins, philosophy, play, Read 6 Comments

A friend and client of mine sent me this post I made on Max Fisch 3 1/2 years ago. I’m fascinated by how accurately those early goals I had exactly two years into my tenure reflect my present status. Focus much? Apparently… Re: Domme goals… 03/26/06 11:58 PM Looking back, what are some of your … Read More

The Beat of a Different Domme.

August 9, 2009corporal, philosophy, play, Read 12 Comments

Masochism, specifically pain explored via implement-driven corporal, is something that I don’t get to talk about, depict, or, consequently, do a lot in my scenes. Bondage is easy to show, promote. I’ve got the gear. I can take dramatic scene pictures of my play partners in all kinds of positions. Hoods and other encasing or … Read More

A Definition

December 30, 2008philosophy, Read 1 Comment

“It seems to me that S&M is about two things: being brave enough to play with power and realize it’s moveable and malleable, and also the deire to be overwhelmed and to be overwhelming. Which is no different than any other kind of sex if it’s any good.” -Maggie Gyllenhaal, 2002 as quoted in “Nerve: … Read More

NIN of the Above

August 28, 2008good stuff, origins, philosophy, Read, wishlist 16 Comments

Talk about Domme cred. My friend The Headliner invited me to the Nine Inch Nails concert Wednesday night (Aug 27) at the Izod Center (uh, the Meadowlands Arena). Me in my leather tank top, Armani jacket, pencil skirt, and sky high shoes. Early to arrive, we scored a prime spot near the front of the … Read More