(I meant to continue yesterday’s post with some thoughts about my clients and heavy play but I couldn’t quite seem to make the transitions work. Still can’t. So. Uh. Zoom Zoom.) Sometimes I get prospective clients who contact me fretting that, based on my MF Reviews or scene descriptions they’ve read on my blog, that … Read More
philosophy
Whence “Kinky”?
Recently I’ve found myself saying to people, “I’m not kinky.” The last person I said that to replied: You’re not real kinky??? Hahaha. You’re kidding me, right? You are soooooo hard-wired kinky you don’t know any different is all. Yes, one person’s kink is another person’s everyday thought. This is a possibility. I’d always maintained … Read More
Why Haven’t You Gone to a ProDomme? Why You Should.
Unspeakable Axe, a very classy fellow, wrote a provocative blog recently about why he doesn’t session with professional dominatrices (yet). While some of his points (no intercourse! it’s a budget killer!) are reasonable, I found some of it inconsistent with my experiences and perspective. So consider this my response rap: Why You Should See A … Read More
It All Began with Popcorn
During my recent trip to the Southern Virginia town I grew up in, I ended up spending the night at the home of myveryfirstboyfriend (and his wife and twin sons). I had a very early flight and he lives close to the airport. We munched on fine North Carolina barbecue and the boys showed me … Read More
French Brazillian
There’s a thread on Max Fisch right now about people with ethnic fetishes. MVX and I were talking about how there are lots of women at Houses who’re advertised as being a particular ethnic flava of the month. Clients will call asking for a particular type and the answer’s always, “Sure, we’ve got that!” Whatever … Read More