Based on the comments to my recent post “Win-Win,” it seemed there was some interest in hearing his side of the story. So I asked him to share it with you. I’ve made some light copyedits for grammar and clarity. You might also want to check out his reply in the comments of the original … Read More
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Win-Win
I knew he wanted it. He certainly knew not to ask me for it, though. Even to suggest it risked dismissal and he definitely didn’t want that. But sometimes when we’d meet, he’d mention how he’d found an escort who also offered domination, at least that’s what her website said, and he was going to … Read More
What “Yes” Looks Like: Part 1
Over on Formspring someone asked me about posting “raw” pictures from my scenes and I replied that I’ve usually done that on Twitter (though the Twitter-linked image hosting sites have gotten quite testy about what kinds of pictures it allows. The one I had been using the most recently deleted my account. Many of the … Read More
Summoning
Over the years I’ve had various play partners express an interest in being summoned. Such as this: I had this dream this morning in New York, or it could have my wakening thought. It turned out I had become independently and inexplicitly wealthy. While for most people this would prompt thoughts of that world vacation or that luxury home, I … Read More
Stillness
One of the bigger challenges I face in my practice is trusting when to keep things simple. Some of it is just having so many amazing toys to play with: Add an inspiring, willing man and, well, we could go all night. Often, we do. But the other part is more about my own headspace. … Read More